Thursday, March 5, 2015

Winter Blues

For those of you that live under a rock (or in Florida), the winter up here has been BRUTAL!  Snow, ice and school closings every week since Christmas.  I think we had one or two normal weeks meaning no snow or school closings, but those weeks came with extreme cold.  High of 14 degrees with it feeling like 3 degrees because of the wind.  I don’t like winter past Christmas because it’s just cold and gray.  Winter makes the holiday season but not much else after that!  I tend to get in a funk, and this year was the worst so far.  The last couple of years, the boys and I would go to Tampa for a month and get away from this crap.  Now that they are both in school, we can’t do that, so I’m forced to stick it out.  It’s almost over!  Next week there will be life back in me.  The forecast is high 40’s/low 50’s and party sunny.  There is a light at the end of the tunnel!

And on top of it all, my camera broke.  It just stopped working.  It was 6 years old.  It got a lot of use and I had been wanting to get a replacement anyway so it was perfect timing.  Rest assured, I am getting a new one (by Friday) and will be taking sunny happy pictures very soon.  We are getting ready for baseball season to start and our spring break trip to South Carolina.  There’s a lot of picture taking opportunity going to happen very soon. 

In the meantime, I’m looking out the window with the snow coming down and the plow trucks coming by every 20 minutes seeing the light at the end of the tunnel with this last hoorah of a snow storm.

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Monday, February 16, 2015


Gluttony is one of the seven deadliest sins.  In the past year, I’ve been pretty gluttonous, and in turn, have gained close to 20 pounds. My blood pressure is a little higher than normal and I attribute it to the weight gain.  I’m at the tippy top of what I should weigh for my height and body frame.  Any more weighed gained, I’m considered over weight.  I’m not happy with my body and I’m a little worried about my health.  My family suffers from heart disease and they say heart disease is the number one cause of death in women.  I’d like to be around for a while to see my kids experience life. 

Wednesday starts the season of lent.  A time when we reflect on the extra things in our lives that we don’t necessarily need.  It’s a time of fasting, and penance, in hopes that we refocus our lives from distraction.  I’ve been distracted by extra food, sweets and wine.  So......for this Lenten season, I will be giving up sweets and extra helpings at dinner.  I won’t give up wine for the entire 40 days (I’m not crazy!) but there won’t be any wine during the week.  Only on Fridays and Saturdays.  I need to refocus my lifestyle to a healthier one. 

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It’s painful to be disciplined in eating healthier and exercising, but the rewards I’ll reap will be so worth it!

The boys haven’t decided what they’d like to give up for Lent.  I’m trying to persuade them to give up sweets as well.  It’ll make my life a whole lot easier without the temptation of candy in the house! 

Thursday, February 12, 2015


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Happy 8th birthday Bird!

Thursday, January 1, 2015


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As I reflect back on the past year, it’s been a year of many changes.  Emotionally.  Spiritually.  Mentally.  And physically.

In all honesty, it was a tough year.  I took on the challenge of being the president of the PTO.  I didn’t realize what a big role the PTO plays at the school.  It’s been an overwhelming and challenging position.  I’ve learned a lot.  I’ve learned what not to do and I’ve learned that I have a lot of people who I can lean on who support me 100%.  I’m half way through my first year and I’ve decided that I’m going to step down next year.  I’m not cut out to be the head person.  I like being that organized admin person.  Not the person who is front and center.  I also miss being a regular old parent, so that’s what I’m going to go back to being.  I will have more time for things that matter most to me.  I will still volunteer because I like being at the boys’ school and seeing them, but just in a smaller role. 

I also took on having to adjust to working again.  Albeit, it’s part time.  My job requires me to work on weekends.  Because of that, there’s time away from us as a family unit.  The blessing is that Joel gets more one on one time with the boys.  It feels good knowing I’m earning a pay check and contributing a small amount to our household (a.k.a. car payment - will work for new car!). 

I’ve given up a few friendships along the way this year too.  As I get older, I realize that some people just aren’t meant to be in your life for the long haul.  Some relationships can be toxic and bring you down.  I had a few that I needed to detox from, and I can’t tell you how much of a difference it’s made in my life.  My life has been calmer, less dramatic and balanced.  It’s actually quite boring but so exciting at the same time.

I’ve started going back to church.  The main reason being that Josh is making his first holy communion.  I also find that it makes me feel more centered.  I also get that feeling after leaving a yoga class.  Maybe I need to add more yoga into my life too.  That feeling of being centered and balanced leaves me to feel like I can conquer anything.  I feel more self-confident.

As the New Year starts, my goal is to keep the calm.  I want to refrain from making resolutions, so let’s call it lifestyle changes. 

New Year’s Lifestyle Changes:

1.  Get back to the gym.  Not too much to elaborate on this.  Gained 20 lbs. and it MUST come off.  No more excuses.

2.  Eat out less.  Cook more.  It’s healthier for us.  I plan to join our local CSA from the farm I work at (well, the one that owns the winery I work at).  It’ll give us vegetables and fruit in a box each week, and we’ll have a chance to pick fruit that is in season each week.  I’m sure we’ll get some weird vegetables, but it doesn’t hurt to try new things.  I recently tried kohlrabi while at a friends for dinner and loved it. 

My plan is to only eat out at fast food restaurants when we travel, and even then, try to make it as healthy as possible – Subway, Panera.  There aren’t too many options when it comes to fast food.  I could really go the extra mile and pack food for us on our trips. 

I’m also looking into joining a local CSB – community supported beef, whereas CSA is community supported agriculture.  My friend belongs and she gets really nice cuts of meat from a local farmer.  The cows are grass fed and grass finished so you know you are getting quality food.  The more local and organic I can get, the better for our family. 

3.  To piggy back on eating out less and cooking more, I’d like to get back into my clean eating.  Eating better will help me lose weight, focus on my health, and improve a junk food-rich diet.  No more candy, cookies and processed crap.  I’m going to eat fresh fruits and vegetables and lean meats or fish.  Add in 72 ounces of water and I should be back in tip top health in no time.    

4.  Date night with my hubby once a month.  Joel and I are so busy that we need some one on one time.  I’d like to try some new fun dates like rock climbing or painting.  Keep date night alive and fun!

5.  Use my father in law’s new beach house as much as we can!  It’s right on the water and has a pool.  It’s free and only a 2 hour drive.  How can we not use it?! 

All these lifestyle changes are a work in progress.  After all, they say is takes 21 days to make a change.  It’s tough to always be good and make time for myself and our marriage, but as long as I’m giving it the old college try, that’s all I can ask of myself. 

Wishing everyone everything they want in 2015.  Here’s to a great new year!

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Family Photos 2014

We got our family photos back!  I am so excited, because they all came out GREAT.  We took them at Sand Key Beach in Clearwater.  It was a bit chilly, but we muddled through.  The lighting couldn't have been more perfect.  Now I just need to decide which ones to print and frame.  It's such a hard decision......

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Sunday, December 28, 2014

Winter Break Hike

The weather has been unseasonably mild.  I mean like 60 degrees.  For December.  It's a nice change from the cold and rain we've been having.  We decided to get outside and enjoy it before it gets cold again, and we're stuck in the house.  

We took a hike to Scotts Run in Great Falls.  Josh loves to hike and he's been asking to go on a hike with a water fall.  So.....we did!  The hike was pretty flat except for certain points where we had to really hike it!  It took the boys a little while to get into it.  They were detoxing from video games.  Once they got over it, they enjoyed themselves and it was great exercise!  

Ok can come now.  Christmas is over and we don't need any more cold.  

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Thursday, December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas!

From our family to yours, no matter how near or far, we wish a very Merry Christmas!

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